Repetition, Devotion, and the Spiritual Practice of Showing Up

“The only way to get good at something is to work on it every day.” — an unnamed martial arts instructor (shared with respect, as I don’t have permission to use his name)

On Wednesday night, that same martial arts instructor reminded us that if you want to get good at karate, you have to do it every single day. Not once a week, not only when you feel motivated — every day. The repetition is the path. Each punch, each block, each kick may feel ordinary, but together they become extraordinary.

When I took tennis in college, it was the same way: drill after drill, front swing, back swing, serve — over and over. At the time I hated what I had to give up to be good at tennis — getting up early to practice, going to bed early, spending hours on drills. But it taught me something that has carried me my whole life: not to give up before the magic happens. And I’ve passed that lesson on to my own kids. What may seem ordinary becomes extraordinary when you don’t give up. It’s like putting a stake in the ground and declaring: “I will heal. I will get good at tennis. I will love again. I will become whole. My business will thrive.” Then you put in consistent work every day until the magic arrives.

That lesson isn’t just about sports or success — it’s deeply spiritual. The same truth shows up in the wisdom of teachers like Richard Rohr, who reminds us that spirituality is not about one dazzling breakthrough but about daily practice. He calls it a discipline: showing up every day in prayer, silence, or service. What feels ordinary — the same breath, the same prayer, the same act of kindness — is actually devotion in disguise. Over time, repetition reshapes the soul, just as drills reshape the athlete.

Healing works the same way. Therapy, reflection, or simply learning to show up for yourself can feel repetitive and difficult. Digging through the past, facing your own shadows — it’s not glamorous. But every time you sit with yourself, every time you choose honesty over avoidance, you are practicing a kind of spiritual devotion.

 Drops That Shape Stone

Healing is like water flowing over stone. One drop doesn’t change much, but day after day, the water softens even the hardest rock. The repetition of practice — whether in karate, tennis, prayer, or therapy — slowly reshapes us. What feels ordinary in the moment becomes extraordinary over time.

And yet, healing isn’t only physical or mental — it’s also energetic. Just as water shapes stone drop by drop, our inner energy shapes how we feel, connect, and heal.

 Energy Work: From Skepticism to Subtle Power

I’ll be honest — when I first heard the word “chakra,” I was extremely skeptical. It sounded vague, maybe even mystical, and I wasn’t sure it had any real meaning. But Reiki training changed that. Experiencing energy flow firsthand was profound, and it showed me that healing isn’t only about the mind or body — it’s about the whole person, including the subtle energy that animates us.

Energy work isn’t about belief; it’s about experience. Just like martial arts drills or tennis practice, it’s about repetition and awareness. It’s the discipline of tuning in to what’s happening beneath the surface — the tension in your chest, the heaviness in your shoulders, the way your breath feels when you’re anxious versus calm.

 Simple Energy Practices to Try

• Grounding: Stand barefoot, imagine roots anchoring you.

• Heart Breathing: Hand over chest, inhale light, exhale heaviness.

• Clearing Movement: Shake out arms, roll shoulders, release stagnant energy.

• Visualization: Imagine light flowing through your body, washing away stress.

 Chakra Awareness

Chakras are often described as seven main energy centers in the body. You don’t have to be mystical to benefit from them — think of them as places where your physical, emotional, and spiritual energy intersect.

• Root Chakra (base of spine): Grounding, stability, safety.

• Sacral Chakra (lower abdomen): Creativity, pleasure, emotional flow.

• Solar Plexus Chakra (stomach area): Confidence, willpower, personal strength.

• Heart Chakra (center of chest): Love, compassion, connection.

• Throat Chakra (throat): Communication, truth, self‑expression.

• Third Eye Chakra (between eyebrows): Intuition, clarity, insight.

• Crown Chakra (top of head): Spiritual connection, openness, higher awareness.

A simple practice: Sit quietly and breathe. As you inhale, imagine energy flowing into one chakra at a time, starting at the root and moving upward. As you exhale, imagine tension leaving that space. Over time, this repetition helps balance your energy and opens the heart to healing.

 The Heart Chakra and Healing

Of all the energy centers, the heart chakra has been the most transformative for me. It is often described as the seat of love, compassion, and connection. When it’s blocked, we may feel closed off or guarded. When it’s open, we experience flow: love for ourselves, love for others, and the courage to stay present even in pain.

Healing the heart chakra isn’t just about energy work — it’s also about somatic practices that bring the body into the process. Because healing isn’t only mental or spiritual; it’s embodied.

 Somatic Practices for the Heart Chakra

• Heart Breathing: Place your hand over your chest, breathe light in, heaviness out.

• Chest Opening Stretches: Roll shoulders back, open arms wide, release tension.

• Sound and Vibration: Hum or chant softly, feel vibration in your chest.

• Connection Practice: Share presence with someone — eye contact, a hug, deep listening.

These practices may feel ordinary at first, but over time they soften old wounds, open the flow of love, and create extraordinary transformation.

 A 7‑Day Healing Discipline

Here’s a simple rhythm you can try — a week of daily practices that open the heart and build the habit of healing:

• Day 1 – Morning Silence (💡 Calms the nervous system and creates space for energy to settle.)

• Day 2 – Journaling (💡 Releases emotions, uncovers patterns, and creates clarity.)

• Day 3 – Gratitude (💡 Rewires the brain toward joy and opens the heart to abundance.)

• Day 4 – Embodied Movement (💡 Martial arts builds discipline, strengthens the body, sharpens focus, and becomes a moving meditation.)

• Day 5 – Connection (💡 Nurtures belonging, moves stagnant energy outward, strengthens resilience.)

• Day 6 – Reflection & Energy Work (💡 Deepens awareness, balances energy, and cultivates inner peace.)

• Day 7 – Rest and Integration (💡 Restores vitality, integrates growth, and honors natural rhythms.)

Repeat this cycle. Over time, the repetition becomes devotion, and devotion becomes transformation.

 Closing Mantra

Practice is devotion. Devotion is transformation. Transformation is healing. Healing is presence. Presence is the magic.

 Call to Action

Now it’s your turn. Put a stake in the ground. Choose one practice — silence, journaling, gratitude, movement, energy work — and commit to it every day this week. Don’t give up before the magic happens. Show up, repeat, and let the ordinary become extraordinary.