When Did We Decide That Longevity Equals Success? #relationshiphealing #traumainformed #healthylove #emotionalsafety #relationshipwisdom #healingjourney #selfworth #alignmentoverendurance #spiritualgrowth #chooseyourself neurodiversity Jan 02, 2026

 

We live in a culture that worships longevity. Thirty-year marriages are celebrated like Olympic medals. People say things like, “We’ve been together forever,” as if time alone is proof of health, safety, or love.

But here’s the truth we rarely say out loud:

Longevity is not the same as intimacy...

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Ok...So I'm a Hypocrite Sometimes #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @infidelity @marriage @tonyrobbins @traumainformed @truelove neurodiversity Oct 30, 2025

 

In today’s world, hustle culture has become a badge of honor — a relentless push to be productive, successful, and constantly “on.” Social media amplifies it with slogans like “rise and grind” and “sleep is for the weak,” glorifying overwork and making rest feel like failure. But beneath this ...

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The Dojo of Self-Trust: Healing After Betrayal and Recovering from Infidelity @betrayal @cheating @infidelity @traumainformed neurodiversity Aug 27, 2025

Rebuilding Trust and Boundaries After Betrayal

If you've ever searched for how to heal from betrayal or recover from infidelity, you know the journey is rarely straightforward. I didn’t know how I was going to trust again—because I didn’t ask for the betrayal. Like so many others, I was thrust into...

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