The Epidemic of Disrespect #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @dr.gabormate @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 29, 2025

“The standard you walk past is the standard you accept.”David Morrison

 

There was a recent article in a UK magazine that described having a boyfriend as “embarrassing.” Not toxic. Not problematic. Just... embarrassing. That word stuck with me. It felt like a symptom of something deeper—som...

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You Don’t Have to Be So Damn Strong All the Time #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @dr.gabormate @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 22, 2025

“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do.” — Brené Brown

 

Tonight, I had a panic attack in martial arts class.

Sweating. Shaking. Breathless. The room spun. I had to sit down while everyone looked on, asking if I was okay. I wasn’t. And I...

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Bruteful Becoming: Why Healing Isn’t About Getting Over It — It’s About Coming Home to Yourself @betrayal @cheating @divorce @dr.gabormate @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed Oct 18, 2025

 

In the documentary The Wisdom of Trauma, Dr. Gabor Maté reframes trauma not as a rare affliction, but as a universal experience — one that disconnects us from our true selves. He doesn’t offer a cure. He offers something more radical: the idea that healing is possible, not by erasing pain, but...

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