Betrayal as the Deepest Divide
Few experiences cut as deeply as betrayal. It shatters trust, isolates us, and tempts us toward bitterness. In today’s polarized world, betrayal is magnified—leaders betray their people, communities betray their values, and friends betray each other. The wound o...
Carl Jung (1875–1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology. He is best known for concepts like the collective unconscious, archetypes, and individuation—the lifelong process of becoming your true self. Jung believed that healing comes not only from treating...
I’ve been following the recent conversations about the so‑called “crisis of masculinity,” including Oprah’s interview with Scott Galloway. While I respect the urgency of his concerns, I don’t fully agree with the framing. Having worked as a therapist for nearly three decades with both men and ...
Introduction
Every day, I hear it: “I’m not enough.” Not enough for that person. Not enough for that job. Not enough for that opportunity.
It’s a refrain that echoes in so many hearts. And yet, most of these beliefs aren’t born from what we know about ourselves. They’re borrowed—from what ot...
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” — Carl Jung
The Mask and the Moment
I remember walking into a networking event a few years ago, rehearsing my polished introduction in my head. I had my “professional mask” firmly in place — confident smile, firm handshake, the ...
Clients often ask me: “What are some good books I can read or listen to on Audible to help me heal?” Over the years, I’ve gathered a list of powerful resources that support healing from betrayal, emotional pain, spiritual growth, and relationships.
Starter Path: 6 Essential Reads
If you’re ...
Disney may have shaped our childhoods with castles and crowns, but its lessons still echo in adult love. Beneath the sparkle, those stories remind us that betrayal, heartbreak, and healing are part of every journey.
This Thanksgiving, my daughter flew home. She’s only staying until the da...
Why Music?
I grew up in the 80’s — the decade of neon lights, mixtapes, and movies that made you want to dance like nobody was watching. The guitars were louder, the hair was bigger, and the soundtracks were unforgettable.
And before anyone even thinks about calling me old… let’s just say I...
The Parable That Mirrors Us
There’s an old Zen story about a man racing down the road on a horse. A monk calls out, “Where are you going?” The man shouts back, “I don’t know—ask the horse!”
I love this story because it captures the essence of self-abandonment. The horse is our conditioning—our fea...
Introduction: Owning the Disruptor Identity
Someone once asked me why I describe myself as a system disruptor. To me, disruption isn’t about chaos or rebellion for its own sake. It’s about questioning the stories we’ve been taught to believe our whole lives — stories about success, love, wort...
Introduction: Redefining Power
When we think of power, we often imagine force, dominance, or control. But true power doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers. Gentle power is strength expressed through humility, compassion, and quiet confidence. It is influence without intimidation, leade...
Preface
I come from a lineage where storytelling and reflection were central — my great‑grandfather was a preacher, and though I’m more spiritual than religious these days, I’ve inherited that love for stories that carry wisdom. What draws me in are the timeless human experiences they reveal.
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