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Betrayal as the Deepest Divide

Few experiences cut as deeply as betrayal. It shatters trust, isolates us, and tempts us toward bitterness. In today’s polarized world, betrayal is magnified—leaders betray their people, communities betray their values, and friends betray each other. The wound o...

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Breakdown to Breakthrough: Why It’s Not What It Seems #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @authenticity @betrayal @curiosity @darknightofthesoul @gentlepower @gratitudeandabundance @intimacy @marriage @neurodiversity @richardrohr Nov 21, 2025

 

We often think of breakdowns as endings — the unraveling of everything we thought we knew. But what if breakdowns are not failures at all? What if they are the very doorway to breakthroughs?

Across traditions and disciplines, this experience has many names. Mystics like St. John of the Cross, th...

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Preface

I come from a lineage where storytelling and reflection were central — my great‑grandfather was a preacher, and though I’m more spiritual than religious these days, I’ve inherited that love for stories that carry wisdom. What draws me in are the timeless human experiences they reveal.

A...

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Repetition, Devotion, and the Spiritual Practice of Showing Up

“The only way to get good at something is to work on it every day.” — an unnamed martial arts instructor (shared with respect, as I don’t have permission to use his name)

On Wednesday night, that same martial arts instruc...

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