“When we are brave enough to live the life of our dreams, we give others permission to do the same.” — Leslie Noble
“If all you do is follow the herd, you'll just be stepping in poop all day.” — Wayne Dyer
In my last post, I shared Wayne Dyer’s wisdom on herd mentality and how di...
There are moments in my life when I catch myself reaching for certainty—wanting to explain, define, or control. But more and more, I find myself leaning into three simple words: I don’t know.
Not knowing doesn’t mean I lack skills or wisdom. It means I choose curiosity over arrogance, humility o...
Betrayal as the Deepest Divide
Few experiences cut as deeply as betrayal. It shatters trust, isolates us, and tempts us toward bitterness. In today’s polarized world, betrayal is magnified—leaders betray their people, communities betray their values, and friends betray each other. The wound o...
Adopting my son overseas has taught me more about maturity than any textbook or training ever could. After graduate school, I worked in an international adoption agency, and that’s where I first met him—in an orphanage in St. Petersburg, Russia. He had been overlooked by Caucasian couples because...
Why a Warrior’s Manifesto Matters
Life will test you. It will wound you, challenge you, and demand that you rise again and again. In those moments, it’s easy to forget who you are and what you stand for. That’s why a warrior’s manifesto is essential—it is not just words on paper, but a daily ...
Introduction
Every day, I hear it: “I’m not enough.” Not enough for that person. Not enough for that job. Not enough for that opportunity.
It’s a refrain that echoes in so many hearts. And yet, most of these beliefs aren’t born from what we know about ourselves. They’re borrowed—from what ot...
Introduction
Love can look like fireworks or like a steady flame. Fireworks dazzle for a moment, but fade quickly. A steady flame, though, warms, endures, and lights the way. In a culture where love is often staged for the world — curated posts, grand gestures, and polished appearances — it’s...
"That is why I share my vulnerabilities—not to relive a past version of myself, but to let people know they are not alone. Pain and suffering are universal. So is betrayal. I share to give people hope, and to remind them that healing is not only possible, it is inevitable when you choose it. P...
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” — Carl Jung
The Mask and the Moment
I remember walking into a networking event a few years ago, rehearsing my polished introduction in my head. I had my “professional mask” firmly in place — confident smile, firm handshake, the ...
A Parable of Baggage
There was once a traveler who carried a heavy bag. Inside were memories of betrayal, loss, hurt, and broken dreams. When the traveler met another along the road, they hoped to share the journey. But instead of compassion, the other scoffed: “You carry too much baggage.”
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Clients often ask me: “What are some good books I can read or listen to on Audible to help me heal?” Over the years, I’ve gathered a list of powerful resources that support healing from betrayal, emotional pain, spiritual growth, and relationships.
Starter Path: 6 Essential Reads
If you’re ...
Disney may have shaped our childhoods with castles and crowns, but its lessons still echo in adult love. Beneath the sparkle, those stories remind us that betrayal, heartbreak, and healing are part of every journey.
This Thanksgiving, my daughter flew home. She’s only staying until the da...
