Carl Jung (1875–1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology. He is best known for concepts like the collective unconscious, archetypes, and individuation—the lifelong process of becoming your true self. Jung believed that healing comes not only from treating...
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” — Carl Jung
The Mask and the Moment
I remember walking into a networking event a few years ago, rehearsing my polished introduction in my head. I had my “professional mask” firmly in place — confident smile, firm handshake, the ...
A Parable of Baggage
There was once a traveler who carried a heavy bag. Inside were memories of betrayal, loss, hurt, and broken dreams. When the traveler met another along the road, they hoped to share the journey. But instead of compassion, the other scoffed: “You carry too much baggage.”
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Over the years of working with couples, I’ve noticed a trend so common that I now make it part of my assessment: the role pornography plays in intimacy struggles. This isn’t about morality or judgment. It’s about how repeated exposure to porn reshapes the brain’s wiring — and how that conditi...
Clients often ask me: “What are some good books I can read or listen to on Audible to help me heal?” Over the years, I’ve gathered a list of powerful resources that support healing from betrayal, emotional pain, spiritual growth, and relationships.
Starter Path: 6 Essential Reads
If you’re ...
Why Music?
I grew up in the 80’s — the decade of neon lights, mixtapes, and movies that made you want to dance like nobody was watching. The guitars were louder, the hair was bigger, and the soundtracks were unforgettable.
And before anyone even thinks about calling me old… let’s just say I...
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.” — Theodore Roosevelt
A Story of Trusting the Gut
Recently, I was at a friends house — the kind of friend who feel more like fam...
We often think of breakdowns as endings — the unraveling of everything we thought we knew. But what if breakdowns are not failures at all? What if they are the very doorway to breakthroughs?
Across traditions and disciplines, this experience has many names. Mystics like St. John of the Cross, th...
Introduction: Owning the Disruptor Identity
Someone once asked me why I describe myself as a system disruptor. To me, disruption isn’t about chaos or rebellion for its own sake. It’s about questioning the stories we’ve been taught to believe our whole lives — stories about success, love, wort...
Introduction: Redefining Power
When we think of power, we often imagine force, dominance, or control. But true power doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers. Gentle power is strength expressed through humility, compassion, and quiet confidence. It is influence without intimidation, leade...
Preface
I come from a lineage where storytelling and reflection were central — my great‑grandfather was a preacher, and though I’m more spiritual than religious these days, I’ve inherited that love for stories that carry wisdom. What draws me in are the timeless human experiences they reveal.
A...
The Personal Beginning
Self-love was never role-modeled for me. Honestly, for most people it isn’t. We’re taught to measure our worth by our looks, our status, or what we’ve achieved. And then we wonder why, even after checking all the boxes, we still feel enormous self-loathing.
For me, the...
