When the Hand That Held You Turns The Knife @betrayal @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Sep 29, 2025

 

Inspired by Unknown Number: The High School Catfish

I watched Unknown Number on Hulu expecting a typical true crime unraveling. What I didn’t expect was to feel gutted.

A mother. Her own daughter. A year-long campaign of anonymous harassment. And the twist? The stalker wasn’t a stranger. It was...

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The Love Illusions We Must Let Go Of @betrayal @divorce @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Sep 23, 2025

 

It starts with a kiss in the rain. Think The Notebook, Titanic, or Twilight. Hollywood has taught us that love is dramatic, all-consuming, and destined. We’re told that when it’s “real,” it defies logic, overcomes all odds, and feels like fireworks every day.

But here’s the truth: those stories ...

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Becoming Is Not Polite Work: A Guide to Unlearning, Disrupting, and Reclaiming Yourself @betrayal @cheating @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @traumainformed @truelove Sep 19, 2025

 

 The Story: When Shadow Work Became a Trend

If you’ve scrolled TikTok lately, you’ve seen it: candle-lit journal sessions, moody captions about “meeting your shadow,” and creators whispering affirmations like spells. Shadow Work is trending—but for many of us, it’s not a trend. It’s survival. It...

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The Small Gaps Where Joy Lives @betrayal @divorce @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Sep 16, 2025

 

It Started With a Windy Afternoon in St. Petersburg

I met my son when he was 11 months old, bundled in layers inside a quiet orphanage in St. Petersburg, Russia. He had spent the first part of his life in institutional care—no toys, no family, no wind on his face. And yet, when I brought him hom...

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Rom-Coms Lied @betrayal @cheating @divorce @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @truelove Sep 13, 2025

 

What True Love Actually Looks Like (Spoiler: It’s Not a Montage)

We grew up on slow-motion kisses, dramatic airport chases, and rain-soaked declarations. Hollywood taught us that love is supposed to feel like a climax—loud, chaotic, and impossibly perfect (I still love watching those movies).

B...

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