“When we are brave enough to live the life of our dreams, we give others permission to do the same.” — Leslie Noble
“If all you do is follow the herd, you'll just be stepping in poop all day.” — Wayne Dyer
In my last post, I shared Wayne Dyer’s wisdom on herd mentality and how di...
Who Is Lewis Howes?
Lewis Howes’ journey is a powerful example of resilience. Raised in Ohio, he struggled academically but found identity through athletics, becoming an All-American football player. When a career-ending injury ended his dreams, he hit rock bottom—broke and depressed on his s...
Kaizen, a Japanese word meaning “change for the better” (kai = change, zen = good), emerged in post–World War II Japan as a philosophy of continuous improvement. Popularized by companies like Toyota and influenced by thinkers such as W. Edwards Deming, Kaizen was built on the ...
Carl Jung (1875–1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology. He is best known for concepts like the collective unconscious, archetypes, and individuation—the lifelong process of becoming your true self. Jung believed that healing comes not only from treating...
Introduction
Love can look like fireworks or like a steady flame. Fireworks dazzle for a moment, but fade quickly. A steady flame, though, warms, endures, and lights the way. In a culture where love is often staged for the world — curated posts, grand gestures, and polished appearances — it’s...
One Comment Made Me Question Everything...
Last night in class, the instructor said something that stopped me in my tracks: “So many people get their black belt and never come back.”
That comment stirred something in me. Why is that? Is it because people become so focused on the belt—the destin...
Over the years of working with couples, I’ve noticed a trend so common that I now make it part of my assessment: the role pornography plays in intimacy struggles. This isn’t about morality or judgment. It’s about how repeated exposure to porn reshapes the brain’s wiring — and how that conditi...
The Parable That Mirrors Us
There’s an old Zen story about a man racing down the road on a horse. A monk calls out, “Where are you going?” The man shouts back, “I don’t know—ask the horse!”
I love this story because it captures the essence of self-abandonment. The horse is our conditioning—our fea...
Why Curiosity Keeps You Young, Sharp, and Spiritually Alive
Introduction: Owning the Disruptor Identity
Someone once asked me why I describe myself as a system disruptor. To me, disruption isn’t about chaos or rebellion for its own sake. It’s about questioning the stories we’ve been taught to believe our whole lives — stories about success, love, wort...
Introduction: Redefining Power
When we think of power, we often imagine force, dominance, or control. But true power doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers. Gentle power is strength expressed through humility, compassion, and quiet confidence. It is influence without intimidation, leade...
Repetition, Devotion, and the Spiritual Practice of Showing Up
“The only way to get good at something is to work on it every day.” — an unnamed martial arts instructor (shared with respect, as I don’t have permission to use his name)
On Wednesday night, that same martial arts instruc...
