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When Real Isn’t Real: How to Know If You’re Being Used #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed matthewhussey Oct 27, 2025

 

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou

I grew up with her. She’s beautiful inside and out—smart, driven, compassionate. A true professional who worked hard to get where she is. Nothing was handed to her. She earned every bit of her success.

So ...

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No More Hiding #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed Oct 26, 2025

 

I was criticized recently for sharing my vulnerabilities. I expected it. Still, it stung. I felt myself get defensive. But here’s the truth: I will not stop. I will not shrink. I will not silence myself to make others comfortable.

Because sometimes people lose hope—not because they’re weak, but ...

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Depression as a Spiritual Awakening: Bridging Inner Pain with Therapeutic Healing #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @traumainformed Oct 25, 2025

 

1. What Is Spirituality—and How Is It Different from Religion?

Spirituality is the personal, intuitive pursuit of meaning, connection, and inner truth. It’s about exploring the deeper layers of existence—our values, our purpose, our relationship with ourselves, others, and the universe. It as...

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The Echo of Betrayal: Why You Don’t Need to Seek Justice #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @cheating @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 24, 2025

 

Betrayal cuts deep. Whether it’s a broken promise, a fractured friendship, or a partner’s deception, the sting of betrayal often leaves us questioning everything—especially trust. But what if betrayal isn’t just a personal wound, but part of a larger energetic pattern?

Many spiritual thinkers an...

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The Gold Beneath the Ashes: Alchemizing Pain into Wisdom #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed Oct 23, 2025

 

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” — Kahlil Gibran

 

 The Phoenix and the Fire

In ancient myth, the phoenix is a radiant bird that lives for centuries before building its own funeral pyre. It burns in the flames, only ...

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You Don’t Have to Be So Damn Strong All the Time #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @dr.gabormate @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 22, 2025

“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do.” — Brené Brown

 

Tonight, I had a panic attack in martial arts class.

Sweating. Shaking. Breathless. The room spun. I had to sit down while everyone looked on, asking if I was okay. I wasn’t. And I...

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Stop Calling It Settling: Maybe You’re Just Waking Up #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @divorce @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 22, 2025
 
 

Earlier this year, BuzzFeed ran a piece where people confessed how they felt about “settling” in relationships. One woman shared, “I settled and I’m good in life, but not happy. To be honest, I’m not even sure the romantic, infatuated love I wanted ever existed.” It was raw, honest, an...

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Labels Are Lazy. People Aren’t. #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @betrayal @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @traumainformed Oct 21, 2025

 

A few years ago, someone I worked with told me — months after we’d become friends — that they used to think I was snobby and unfriendly. It caught me off guard. I remember laughing awkwardly, then admitting, “I’m actually just shy. I’ve always been that way.”

It wasn’t the first time I’d heard s...

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Buckle Up: Why Surrendering to Uncertainty Is the Boldest Move You Can Make #surrendertouncertainty #embracetheunknown #letgotogrow #strongheartwarrior #boldinthestorm #riseinuncertainty #trusttheunfolding @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed Oct 20, 2025

 

I hate looking at the news lately.

Every headline feels like a gut punch — war, inflation, climate chaos, political tension. I want to stay informed, but I also want to stay sane. It’s a daily tightrope walk: balancing awareness with emotional survival.

Some days I scroll with dread. Other d...

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Bruteful Becoming: Why Healing Isn’t About Getting Over It — It’s About Coming Home to Yourself @betrayal @cheating @divorce @dr.gabormate @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @neurodiversity @selflove @traumainformed Oct 18, 2025

 

In the documentary The Wisdom of Trauma, Dr. Gabor Maté reframes trauma not as a rare affliction, but as a universal experience — one that disconnects us from our true selves. He doesn’t offer a cure. He offers something more radical: the idea that healing is possible, not by erasing pain, but...

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The Most Important Love Story You’ll Ever Tell @betrayal @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @infidelity @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @marriage @selflove @traumainformed Oct 17, 2025

 

“Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all?”

We all remember the wicked queen in Snow White — obsessed with being the most admired. But beneath her vanity was something deeper: insecurity, comparison, and a desperate need for external validation.

She didn’t love herself. She ...

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“Am I Ready Yet?” — Rediscovering Our Inner Warrior @betrayal @divorce @healingafterbetrayalbyapartner @learningtotrustagainafterbetrayal @selflove @traumainformed @truelove Oct 16, 2025

 

Last night in martial arts class, I watched a young boy take his belt test. Every week leading up to it, he asked the same question: “Am I ready yet? His eyes sparkled with hope, his body moved with determination, and his heart was wide open. He wanted it so badly. And I saw him work—really work...

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