Earlier this year, BuzzFeed ran a piece where people confessed how they felt about “settling” in relationships. One woman shared, “I settled and I’m good in life, but not happy. To be honest, I’m not even sure the romantic, infatuated love I wanted ever existed.” It was raw, honest, an...
1. What Is Spirituality—and How Is It Different from Religion?
Spirituality is the personal, intuitive pursuit of meaning, connection, and inner truth. It’s about exploring the deeper layers of existence—our values, our purpose, our relationship with ourselves, others, and the universe. It as...
Betrayal cuts deep. Whether it’s a broken promise, a fractured friendship, or a partner’s deception, the sting of betrayal often leaves us questioning everything—especially trust. But what if betrayal isn’t just a personal wound, but part of a larger energetic pattern?
Many spiritual thinkers an...
“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” — Kahlil Gibran
The Phoenix and the Fire
In ancient myth, the phoenix is a radiant bird that lives for centuries before building its own funeral pyre. It burns in the flames, only ...
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do.” — Brené Brown
Tonight, I had a panic attack in martial arts class.
Sweating. Shaking. Breathless. The room spun. I had to sit down while everyone looked on, asking if I was okay. I wasn’t. And I...
A few years ago, someone I worked with told me — months after we’d become friends — that they used to think I was snobby and unfriendly. It caught me off guard. I remember laughing awkwardly, then admitting, “I’m actually just shy. I’ve always been that way.”
It wasn’t the first time I’d heard s...
In the documentary The Wisdom of Trauma, Dr. Gabor Maté reframes trauma not as a rare affliction, but as a universal experience — one that disconnects us from our true selves. He doesn’t offer a cure. He offers something more radical: the idea that healing is possible, not by erasing pain, but...
“Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all?”
We all remember the wicked queen in Snow White — obsessed with being the most admired. But beneath her vanity was something deeper: insecurity, comparison, and a desperate need for external validation.
She didn’t love herself. She ...
Last night in martial arts class, I watched a young boy take his belt test. Every week leading up to it, he asked the same question: “Am I ready yet?” His eyes sparkled with hope, his body moved with determination, and his heart was wide open. He wanted it so badly. And I saw him work—really work...
I used to think I was just chill. But emotionally? I was like a phone with 3% battery and no charger in sight. Functional, barely. Available? Not really.
If someone offered help, I’d say, “Oh no, I’ve got it!” while juggling flaming swords, a broken heart, and three overdue therapy sessions. ...
The other night, my daughter—who lives out of state—called me, clearly fired up. She’d been watching Sex and the City and couldn’t hold back:
“I don’t understand why people think this is what a good relationship looks like… it’s toxic.”
I smiled, because she was absolutely right...
There’s a moment after a relationship ends when everything feels louder. The silence in your home, the absence of texts, the empty space beside you in bed—it all echoes. And in that echo, it’s easy to believe the grass must be greener somewhere else. That maybe if you just found someone new, you’...