Attachment has become one of those words that’s everywhere. It shows up in therapy sessions, podcasts, Instagram captions, and late-night conversations with friends. It’s relatable, it’s trendy, and it’s often used as shorthand for why we act the way we do. But here’s the thing: attach...
A Music Survival Kit: Healing Loud, Living Free
Nov 22, 2025
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Why Music?
I grew up in the 80’s — the decade of neon lights, mixtapes, and movies that made you want to dance like nobody was watching. The guitars were louder, the hair was bigger, and the soundtracks were unforgettable.
And before anyone even thinks about calling me old… let’s just say I...
Breakdown to Breakthrough: Why It’s Not What It Seems
Nov 21, 2025
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We often think of breakdowns as endings — the unraveling of everything we thought we knew. But what if breakdowns are not failures at all? What if they are the very doorway to breakthroughs?
Across traditions and disciplines, this experience has many names. Mystics like St. John of the Cross, th...
Living Authentically: Lessons from The Last Samurai
Nov 20, 2025
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I just watched The Last Samurai, and it made me think about how brave it is to live with authenticity—and why it’s so important. The Samurai lived by Bushidō, the Way of the Warrior. It wasn’t just about battle; it was about living with honor, sincerity, and courage. Watching the film reminded...
Self-Abandonment: The Healing Journey Back to Self-Trust
Nov 18, 2025
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The Parable That Mirrors Us
There’s an old Zen story about a man racing down the road on a horse. A monk calls out, “Where are you going?” The man shouts back, “I don’t know—ask the horse!”
I love this story because it captures the essence of self-abandonment. The horse is our conditioning—our fea...
From Thanksgiving to Daily Practice: Gratitude as a Doorway to Abundance
Nov 17, 2025
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Long before gratitude became a buzzword in psychology or a spiritual mantra, it was woven into cultural rituals. The first widely recognized “Thanksgiving” in North America took place in 1621, when the Plymouth colonists and the Wampanoag people shared an autumn harvest feast. For more than two c...
The Soul Beneath the Labels — What It Means to Be a System Disruptor
Nov 16, 2025
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Introduction: Owning the Disruptor Identity
Someone once asked me why I describe myself as a system disruptor. To me, disruption isn’t about chaos or rebellion for its own sake. It’s about questioning the stories we’ve been taught to believe our whole lives — stories about success, love, wort...
Because Googling at 2 a.m. Is a Personality Trait
Nov 16, 2025
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Why Curiosity Keeps You Young, Sharp, and Spiritually Alive
I’ll admit it: I’m the kind of person who will suddenly decide I must know everything about a random subject. One week it’s the history of bubble wrap (spoiler: it was invented as wallpaper), the next it’s how bees communicate through ...
The Gentle Art of Power
Nov 15, 2025
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Introduction: Redefining Power
When we think of power, we often imagine force, dominance, or control. But true power doesn’t always roar — sometimes it whispers. Gentle power is strength expressed through humility, compassion, and quiet confidence. It is influence without intimidation, leade...
Looking at Yourself After Betrayal: From Walls to Redemption
Nov 15, 2025
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Preface
I come from a lineage where storytelling and reflection were central — my great‑grandfather was a preacher, and though I’m more spiritual than religious these days, I’ve inherited that love for stories that carry wisdom. What draws me in are the timeless human experiences they reveal.
A...
From Tennis Swings to Karate Kicks: The Habit of Healing
Nov 14, 2025
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Repetition, Devotion, and the Spiritual Practice of Showing Up
“The only way to get good at something is to work on it every day.” — an unnamed martial arts instructor (shared with respect, as I don’t have permission to use his name)
On Wednesday night, that same martial arts instruc...
Rejection Is Protection: Turning ‘No’ Into Growth
Nov 13, 2025
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“Don’t get too comfortable. You are only walking home.” — Rumi
“I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.” — Michael Jordan
Over the last couple of years, I’ve taken some of the biggest risks of my life: starting my own business, letting go of...
